On the surface of it, Fleshlight adult toys seem pretty simple – an extension of your hand that feels a little more like realistic sex, but not quite as big, bulky and hard to hide as a blow-up doll! However, there’s a wealth of new discoveries to be made inside those little tubes of specially formulated silicone… if you’ve recently purchased a Fleshlight adult toy or are 性玩具 about it, here’s everything you’ll need to know about the Fleshlight.
Buying a Fleshlight Adult Toy
Many handheld pussy/anal sex simulators are called Fleshlights, although ‘Fleshlight’ is actually a particular brand. If you’re looking to buy one of these toys, have a browse through the men’s adult toy section generally, don’t just search by the name.
Look for toys made of Cyberskin or ‘realistic feel’ silicone – there is an amazing difference between these and standard old silicone!
You’ll also notice that some are made in a flashlight style, while others have a flat base to help you ‘mount’ the toy to a surface for hands-free operation (“Hey look, no hands!”). The mountable ones can cost a little more, but you can get the same effect from a handheld one by jamming it between your mattress and base, or between two couch cushions.
Prepping and Using Your Fleshlight Adult Toy
The proper prep can make a big different to how your Fleshlight adult toy feels. Here’s the usual MO:
Fill the sink full of warm-hot water
Remove the insert from the casing and sit it in the sink for 5 minutes
Repeat if you like, or for thicker inserts
DON’T use the microwave or boiling water
Pop some wipes nearby to help with the cleanup – you’ll want to get the lube off your hands to get a good grip on your adult toy
Slather the inside with water-based lube only; silicone-based lube will react with the adult toy and melt it.
Once you’re ready to go, try some different ideas like:
Using it as an extension of your hand as you’d normally masturbate
Jamming the Fleshlight between your mattress and the bed base for doggie-style simulation
Alternatively, push it down between your couch cushions to hold it in place.
Popping your adult toy into a shoe for unusual angles
Simply hold it on a countertop or the side of a couch
This takes a while – however, it is essential that this type of toy is cleaned properly, because the closed environment, warmth and wetness make an ideal bacterial breeding ground.
Run warm water through the Fleshlight after use, and use a cloth and your fingers to do the initial clean. After this, use some specially designed adult toy cleaner and sanitiser to leave your Fleshlight ready for it’s next adventure.
Fleshlight Stamina Training Units
These adult toys are apparently (!) designed to help guys last longer in bed. When I first heard this, I imagined a device that somehow sensed when ejaculation was going to occur and projected an imagine of Roseanne Barr naked onto the nearest wall… but sadly, this isn’t the case!
The base idea of the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit is to simulate the feeling of a real lady’s love tunnel as closely as possible, so that you are eventually desensitised to the experience.
Does it work? Customers certainly say so! Some of the most enthusiastic adult toy reviews you’ll ever read have been written about the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit. For example:
“I did not expect much but was surprised big time. The Stamina Training Unit does indeed feel good. Actually it did feel too good for me. I came just entering the thing. I was both shocked and amazed.”
“This thing is the most awesome masturbator in the world, I say its as good or better than a real pussy! By working slowly with it (training) it does help holding out longer… This thing is up there with the lightbulb as far as incredible inventions!”
“And it does seem to work. I’m able to recognize the signs of impending orgasm much better, and I’m able to last a few cycles more already. Exciting news, and something that did not go unnoticed by her!”
So you might have heard about the adult toy parties but you haven’t been to one yet. You might even consider holding one yourself. The girls always love to get together and have a lot of fun when they have any type of gathering. But with Adult Toy Parties you can give your friends the opportunity to buy items they might be too embarrassed to shop for in person in a fun environment, and there is always something for everyone.
Adult Toy Parties are a Blast
Adult toy parties are so much fun. Rather than going out on the town you can go to your friend’s house to a party where you can learn about gifts and unique toys you might love to buy. Not only do women love to get together to have a party at home, there are so many reasons to hold a party like this.
It may be your best friend’s birthday, her hen’s night or perhaps you simply are looking for a reason for having a great night with your friends at home. Any time is a good time to hold adult toy parties.
Shop in the comfort and safety of your own home
When you hold adult toy parties there is always something for everyone. You might have some pretty wild friends and feel like you would be embarrassed to make a purchase. Although some of the toys might look interesting, they may be slightly too wild for your taste. Don’t worry; items you will find at these parties will vary from wild to mild so you can find something suitable to your taste and preference.
Many women are too embarrassed to purchase some of the toys they would absolutely love; others are even too embarrassed to visit an adult store. There is nothing wrong with it but the embarrassment is too much for them. By bringing in a consultant, you are creating a way for your friends to purchase their secretly desired toys without having to set a foot into an adult store. This is an excellent way to eliminate any embarrassment and buy toys that are fun.
When you bring in a consultant you’re also bringing in someone who is experienced and can give you the best possible advice in a safe environment. They can show you the correct operation of all the Adult Toys and can be assured your purchases will be best suited to your individual situation.
Here are 5 Reasons It’s a Great Idea to Hold and Adult Toy Party
1. It’s in the comfort of your home, so you don’t have to feel embarrassed
2. You can choose from a large selection of products, including Adult Toys and Lingerie
3. Your Products will be delivered right to your door after the event
4. You can benefit from the experience of a consultant
5. It’s fun to spend time with the girls, and have a few drinks at home
There are many reasons to hold an adult toy party and you can hold one at your home for any reason you want to. Your girlfriends will have a lot of fun and they will finally be able to make the purchases they want to without the embarrassment of visiting adult stores. This is one of the best ways to have a really fun night out – at home.
Nikki Pike owns and operates Positively Pink, a business that pro